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Feature article ~ Does your partner's fear affect you?

Coach update

Mark Recommends ~ Momentum Coaching

A Note From the Coach

I'm not sure if I'm ready for Fall.

I know there is nothing I can do about it - the seasons are changing and it's getting cooler.

I love being outside and would happily be in tropical weather year round.

My vision includes a beach front residence, probably on the Florida Gulf Coast.

It's empowering to know that, with our home businesses, we can achieve anything that we set our intentions upon.

Dream big.

I am continuing my mission is to reach another 1,000 women who desire more support from their partner. Please forward this email to
women you know who would like more support from their other
half and who want to succeed together.

If you are in Direct Sales/Network Marketing and can get to Indianapolis on October 7th, 6:30-9:30pm, then you won't want to miss the DSWA ELITE Rising Star Leadership event hosted by one of my favorite people, Nicki Keohohou of the Direct Selling Women's Alliance.
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Be great

Mark

Feature Article

Does your partner's fear affect you?

When you have a clear vision and a solid belief in the path that you are on, you are not impacted by external events such as the economy, price of gasoline, etc.

Yes, the factors may influence a shift in your strategy and your business activities albeit they do not change what you are steadily moving toward.

It essentially is a simple matter of faith, belief and trust. When you know that you are succeeding, regardless of what is in your current life experience, you are unstoppable.

Everyone is a believer when things are going great. It’s when things get a little rough that your true beliefs are apparent.

Without belief and faith, you don’t have anything to depend upon and you will find yourself reacting and being desperate. Essentially, living in fear.

Every human being experiences fear at some point in there lives. It is one of our fundamental emotions and exists for a reason.

Way back in the caveman days, if you see a large predator coming towards you, fear is what gets you into rapid motion in the other direction. If you stuck around to analyze and communicate, the human race would have died out long ago.

When fear inhibits you from doing what you can do for your business, it’s not a good thing.

If your partner is sharing the journey with you and shares your beliefs and vision, then you are a powerful force together.

What do you do if your partner is bogged down with fear over the economy, finances, etc.?

In a close, committed relationship the energy and emotions of your partner will impact yours. If that energy is toward the negative, you must do what you need to minimize how much of it you absorb.

The single most important activity is to take care of you. And, on all levels. Physically, emotionally, mentally and spiritually. When you do this, you position yourself to be in the optimal space for anything in your day.

Next, be connected with your vision and your passion. This is what gives you direction, energy and inspiration. Connecting with it throughout your day enables you to stay in your optimal space.

From this position, you are now better aligned to choose the activities that will move you toward your dreams.

This centered space will also allow you to minimize the influence of your partner’s energy.

While communication is critical to an effective relationship, you cannot communicate if emotions are running high, or fear is present. Do what you can to establish a time to communicate when you are both in an empowered frame of mind.

Yes, you may discuss some concerns – and that is legitimate. It’s one thing to discuss something that you are uncertain about. It’s quite another to be wigging out about it and getting into knee-jerk react mode.

If you and your partner are unable to see eye-to-eye and establish a common basis and strategy, then it is decision time. You either buy into their fear and go along with the random activities that come out of desperation. Or, you stay focused on your journey, stay true to who you are and keep your eye on your prize.

And, of course, this could further irritate your partner as they are seeing the world as they know it coming to an end, while you are calm, focused and happy. How do you think this will be interpreted by them?

Know that you are not responsible for how they choose to interpret anything. Just because you’re not joining them in pulling your hair out and yelling does not mean you’re not aware of the situation. It does not mean that you do not care.

It simply means that you are focused on what you want and you are actively doing what you can do.

As my friend and author Kim George says in her awesome book, Coaching Into Greatness,: "You are choosing your greatness over your fear at any given moment."

As your life is all about who you are being in this moment, it’s an obvious choice.

Be successful - together

Mark Semple CCC
www.successfultogethercoaching.com

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Resources for Success Together

Easy Meals For Busy People

How do you have the time to cook meals at home when you are busy growing your businesses. The answer is Smoosh Meals. If you haven't heard of them, you don't know what you're missing.

Click here to see our Mealtime movie.

The Direct Selling Women's Alliance has been a core part of our journey in this profession.

They are currently offering a trial membership for just $1.00!

Click here to take advantage of this limited-time offer and experience the DSWA for yourself.

Choose You, Not Divorce

My friend and fellow Coach, Kassandra Vaughn has released an amazing audio series, Choose You, Not Divorce.

I listened to the audio myself recently and was deeply touched by Kassandra's insights, perspectives and passion for this sensitive topic.

If your relationship is not quite in the space you want it to be, please check this audio out before you make any decisions.

Click here to purchase Choose You, Not Divorce for $29.99.
Please let Kassandra know you heard about it thru Successful Together.

Be Smoke Free Now

Have you tried to quit smoking several times and keep going back to it?

BarBara Whorley, of Spotted Zebras Coaching, has a new program that is proven to help you quit for good.

As this process requires interaction, BarBara can only assist if you reside in California. She can put you in contact with a resource in your area.

Click here for more information on BarBara and Be Smoke Free Now.

The Barefoot Executive

My friend, Carrie Wilkerson a.k.a The Barefoot Executive, provides some of the most effective training for home businesses.

One of the best things that happened to me recently was to get to know Carrie. Her insights, expertise and sheer passion for making a difference are a huge boost to my business.

I have to tell you about an audio & transcript Carrie is giving away for fr.ee! To get your copy of Finding Your Why, click here.

Your most important asset is you.

How well do you care for yourself? Are you there for everone else, and put you on a back-burner?

Having the most successful business and the most fulfilling life requires that you take the best possible care of you.

Angie Jones is my friend and a phenomenal trainer - Click here to see her movie. Don't forget to sign up for her newsletter - because you deserve it.

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Your Web Presence

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